Vision & Purpose

We CAN all control our reality and obtain true personal fulfillment, regardless of the past choices we have made or the circumstances that we have been placed within. We will not blindly follow the plan that others have for us, nor will we embrace words of discouragement that keep us from fulfilling our own personal dreams.   We will unite with others with a similar mission and organize a community that will change the world for the positive, one small act at a time 


Our mission is to create unity and connection with those who have a desire to choose their fate and determine their own reality, regardless of our current place in life.  In short, Unite, Share, Apply, and Thrive.

How did it start?

CYFworld mission started unconsciously as fear and emotional distress took hold of me as a child. As I grew and struggled with my own state of mind, I found purpose in not just learning from my experiences and perspective, but also from the experiences and perspectives others shared with me. I came to learn that fear is the opposite of life and living.  From that stemmed a desire to further eliminate that fear for myself and others.


Just jump in and share what you already know

Get Involved and Create CYFworld. You have wisdom, experience and perspective that only you have...and it needs to heard. Share what's inside you and speaks to any angle around the Choose Your Fate concept.

There is someone that needs to hear what you have to say. They are only going to see it if you take the time to step outside of your comfort zone to share it.

Not confident in your writing ability? Provide the thoughts and experiences you have and we'll help.

  • Unite with others around the world
  • Share the CYF perspective and thoughts you already have, whether through your submitted blog or within the comments on blogs others have shared
  • Apply new concepts and ideas others share that speak to you
  • Thrive by making the decision to Choose Your Fate

Submit your CYFworld Blog

Share your journey, perspective and experience on CHOOSING YOUR FATE. Subscribe, enter your name, email and blog topic to upload your submission. All highlighted Blogs receive a signed copy of Lulled.

The Concept is Born

One of many defining moments in my life came as I saw my marriage falling apart right before my eyes. To the outsider, my life looked perfect. I was respected within my profession with a good paying job that enabled me to lead a team that made a positive difference on a terrible orphan disease. I was married with four smart and healthy children, with a nice house located in a great neighborhood. But, my entire world seemed to be falling apart beneath my feet. During this time in my life, I spent hours in the desert by my home in the very early or late hours of the day and night. It was a place I used to escape. One early morning, I stood contemplating the concept of Controlling your Reality. I also contemplated what others had said about Fate and how things may be predestined to occur. I considered that there are things that may occur beyond our control, but at the same time, we do have a choice over how what does occur  impacts our lives. With a stick I held in my right hand, I wrote CYF (Choose Your Fate) in the desert sand. At the very moment I finished, two groups of coyotes howled around me. Chills ran down my spine and the CYFworld concept was born. 


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