True Self and Religion

There are two ways to live; you can live as if nothing is a miracle; you can live as if everything is a miracle – Albert Einstein

True Self

"People are capable, at any time and age, in doing what they dream of. You must choose between what you have become accustomed to and what you really want."

– The Alchemist, Paulo Coelho


 Actions and beliefs in regards to obtaining Religion or Finding your True Self is an important individual decision that will evolve throughout life. There are very spiritual, and seemingly fulfilled people, that embrace "very different" theologies.  Regardless of the different theologies individuals choose to embrace, there is an often unrealized opportunity to further the good with actions that unite us.

True Self

Acceptance, Presence and Mindfulness

Acceptance: If you don't like your situation, change it. If you can't change it, accept the present moment. Happiness is not determined by your situation. Happiness is determined by your thoughts around it.

Presence: Now is the only true reality. Embrace it, live it, love it...and you will see your life, your relationships, and your peace of mind transform in a positive way.

Mindfulness: In order to be present, you must be mindful. Stop going through the motions, the "to-dos" and focus on the NOW. Practicing on routine activities will help transform into true presence and a more fulfilling life.

Intention, Non-Attachment and Ego

Intention is where fulfilling life's dreams starts, whether is is as simple as finding a parking space at the mall or as in-depth as true love and spiritual awakening. 

Non-Attachment: when your sense of self is not dictated by the outcome. Happiness is no longer determined from what you cannot control now. 

Ego: People often do not realize the illusion of self until after a collapse of their self-identity associated with things, body, or thoughts (i.e. bankruptcy, divorce, body injured or maimed). Others still choose to resist what happened by becoming bitter or deeply resentful, hardening the shell of the Ego. Separate who you are from things of the world.

Managing Self-Talk

  • Studies have shown that developing awareness of current positive and negative self talk, followed by acquiring positive self-talk skills, and then implementation of those skills can have a significant impact on self-confidence, the way you view the world and obtaining your dreams.
  • Quantum Physics has shown that living things are emitters and receivers of energy...our thoughts, our emotions are energy which has a real impact on the physical world around us. This has a direct impact on our achievement, happiness and physical health. More information can be found in Becoming Supernatural.

Overcoming Anxiety and Stress

  • Significant health problems can occur with consistent states of high anxiety and stress. This condition also stifles many more areas that impact realizing your dreams and other quality of life factors.  There are resources that help.
  • Spending time in nature, or at least viewing it, can significantly reduce stress. The Japanese started the national health practice of Forest Bathing in 1982

Inspiration and Finding your True Self

Inspiration and great wisdom is often given in small doses. Click below for links to inspirational quotes from works by various authors and inspirational leaders.

The Gifts of Charity

“When we feel love and kindness toward others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace.”   ― Dalai Lama XIV  

Inspirational Words to Live by

"ALL are blessed by being part of what unites us all…that part of us, that makes each one of us INCREDIBLE. Always remember that. Know that. Feel that. Embrace that. And, BE that. "

Quotes from inspirational works COMING SOON!


"Some are blessed with ability that can be highlighted on the field, some are blessed with the ability to solve problems and create solutions for the world to use, and ALL are blessed by being part of what unites us all…that part of us, that makes each one of us INCREDIBLE. Always remember that. Know that. Feel that. Embrace that. And, BE that. You are important because of who you are, beyond the abilities and limitations your body and your mind provide you.” – Cliff Patterson 

“Believe in yourself. Know what I know. Follow your dreams, and above all, be happy” – Bruce Dobson

“It doesn’t matter what happens, you CAN STILL WIN!” - Rajan 

“Every time the sun comes up, look for something you didn’t see before. If you look to see something new, something beautiful, you will always find it.” – Mike Petersen

“There are times, sometimes very long times, that we forget who we are, where we come from, and what we are a part of. Sometimes we feel dead in a sense, but there is always a rebirth, a remembering from that part of us that never forgets.” – Mike Petersen

“You don’t need anyone else to obtain all that God is or has. It’s within you. It’s a part of you.” - Mike Petersen 

“At this moment, you are where you are meant to be …when you realize that, life happens.” – Eckhart Tolle

“Follow your Bliss and the Universe will open doors where there were only walls.” – Joseph Campbell 

“If I were not afraid, if I were not alone, what would I do at this moment?” – unknown

“Enlightenment for a wave is the moment wave realizes that it is water. At that moment all fear of death disappears.” –Thich Nhat Hanh.

“The mind and the body are linked. Use your body to expel all that anger, hurt and pain your mind has refused to let go. It’s not about forgetting, it's about moving forward…taking control of your future.” - Mark Walker 

"You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view--until you climb inside of his skin and walk around in it."  - To Kill a Mockingbird 

“While judgment continues to be held due to the physical or psychological characteristics of a person, without the true realization of the deep connection that we all share, the enlightened and inner peaceful state that one may desire will continue to elude the person seeking it.” – Malcolm Wright  


Inside, you already know...

Questions to contemplate that may help to determine what you choose to believe.

Major Religions of the World

Despite the wars, arguments, and turmoil caused by differences in religion, there is so much that unites us. Embracing those things and working together for good will help change the world. 

Inside you already know...

Questions to contemplate that may help to determine what you choose to believe:

  • Does it create unity or cause division?
  • Does it bring out your best self?
  • Are you able to embrace your authentic self without guilt or feeling "less than?"
  • Does it help others?
  • Are there those that it harms?
  • Are you able to freely express thoughts and opinions, or are you censored?
  • Are your actions directed by a desire to do and be more, or through fear, guilt or shame?
  • Could you display the actions of the belief throughout the world and to any audience without regret?
  • Do you have a direct link to your higher power, or is there a person designated as a liaison?
  • Do you feel uplifted when following a belief, or do you follow principals out of guilt?
  • Are you able to hold to principles that speak to you and let go of those that do not?
  • Are some people placed above others, or separated as more important within the congregation?
  • Does it strengthen your family and relationships?


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